We have a friend who is 33. We've known her since she was 14.
She is an angel. And this is what we imagine she might be attracted to. 😉
31+. Tall. San Diego–based. Liberal. In therapy — he's doing the work. Ideally childless, but an exceptional dad on genuinely great terms with his ex clears the bar.
Kind. Self-aware. Curious. Emotionally intelligent and empathetic — not as buzzwords, but as lived practice. Uses honest, healthy communication. Not avoidant.
Well-traveled. Active and adventurous — ideally a surfer. Maintains good friendships and solid family relationships. Values personal and professional growth. Cares about helping people and contributing to meaningful causes.
Loves dogs. Probably doesn't have one yet (timing, not disinterest). Kind to animals broadly. Under no circumstances reports her dog to animal control.